Does it matter who says it or what's said? We want to believe content wins, but the fallacy of origins runs deeper than we admit. Staying in echo chambers stagnates us. Exposing ourselves to the intolerable drains us. Where's the middle?
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I learned way too late in life that small talk is boundary maintenance disguised as conversation. A code for keeping polite distance, not building connection. Like a chaperoned date with enforced space. The choreography can feel more exhausting than the silence it fills.
We all worry about what others think of us. They're mostly not thinking about us but perhaps what we think of them. The mismatch between the concern and the actual indifference is where anxiety quietly compounds. Everyone cares far less about each other than everyone imagines.
Humans aren't resources. Culture isn't cult-like team building. Companies aren't families, they're communities built on mutual benefit. Accountability and competence are non-negotiable. Everything else is optics theatre.
Marx would look at housing treated as speculative assets and say he literally wrote about this. Shelter commodified, workers priced out, landlords extracting wealth they didn't create. He'd probably say "I told you" but with more German compound words.